More fool those women who are willing to have such casual sex. Like many women, I wanted to get the kids raised before calling it quits. But you are assuming everyone who gets divorced is traumatized bc of and during. I love him so much and want to help him. What he chooses to do now is not my concern. I was surprised to come up with 11 things. We had an awesome 6 months…although I had in the back of mind that I had to be very cautious with him not introducing each other to our kids was a big clue!
I am or thought I was ready to marry this guy but it is so far out of the picture, since he is still not divorced.
Should I Date A Man Who is Still in the Process of Divorce?
Make sure he's fully healed from his divorce, and don't be surprised if he's slow to commit. You have to stop being concerned with him, and be concerned with yourself. Do you go to the same church?